Every time we say something we are not supposed to say, we either retract it or ask for an apology, and most often than not, a sincere apology will mend the damage all the hurtful words that have been said. Online communication, however, takes an entirely different rule. Words could easily be taken out of context.

Text messaging could really cause anyone unnecessary hurt when words are said and interpreted not originally intended, young people even termed it Text messaging Under the Influence (TUI).  Text messages with an angry or inappropriate context are readily sent to the recipient and then wished it should have never been sent. One worse scenario of TUI is when you say nasty words to someone else and then you mistakenly send it to your parents all just because you had the buttons mixed up in its usage. I will move this any further and change TUI into Tired and Emotional Typing (TET). TET is the inappropriate way of using text messaging in a business sense. Usually this happens when your emotions are experiencing an all time roller coaster wild ride.  Today, whatever idea or opinion you have, you can always make it known to all the people you knew simultaneously. This could really be a great idea that is if your statement is wholesome and helpful, but what if it’s a statement borne out of frustration? Imagine the number of people knowing your disappointments.

Communication in online web is a testament of human genius and superb ability. It is a good avenue to craft an ideal image and create a solid reputation, but it is a double edged sword that may also cause harm than good. This tool could work against you especially if your emotion lets you show your worst when provoked.

 I have seen it too often, people send off heated remarks, and then regret they have been a slave to their emotions. Here are some of the common pitfalls why online communication could get you in trouble:

Online, everyone is anonymous and that gives anyone an extra gut to throw nasty platitudes knowing that no one knows him

• It is so easy to say anything to anyone online without being answerable to anyone
• Anything can be interpreted differently. Even the things said with the best of intentions could be understood entirely in a different way.

Make it your own rule not to say anything when you are on the peak of your anger. Never send an online message with a context that you might regret saying later on. You do not even need to respond back in kind every time you get provoking comments. If you feel like the message you are about to send says something that do not entirely mirrors your usual character, better save it till morning. Only until when you are sure you are already in your usual self should you decide whether to send the message or not.